生命的终点站

当自己的生命剩下不多，自己会做些什么？

听到二姑时日不多的消息， 心里好难受。通常会在电视连续剧听到的，我亲耳从我堂姐听到。动两次的大手术， 对抗病魔多年， 还是没法打败它。我们都好不甘。 

我多看二姑几眼， 好几次握她的手，叫她好好休息。 爸爸也是安慰二姑，叫她不要想太多， 现在是靠她的意志力打倒病魔。


真希望奇迹会出现。二姑， 加油！

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